How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
If you’re like I was, you’ve probably wondered: “How do I make him miss me like crazy — without having to play games or pretend I don’t care?”
I used to think that in order to make a man miss me, I had to “disappear,” ignore him, or act cold and detached. But the truth is — those kinds of games usually backfire. They might spark a little curiosity at first… but they don’t create the kind of deep emotional attraction that makes a man genuinely miss you.
What does work? Triggering his hero instinct — and knowing how to create an emotional connection that makes him think about you when you’re not around.
That’s exactly what I want to share today — and if you want the step-by-step guide that helped me the most, here it is:
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Why Games Don’t Work (And What Does)
Here’s the thing: men don’t miss you because you’re “hard to get” — they miss you because of how you make them feel.
When a man feels emotionally connected to you — admired, appreciated, safe to be himself — that’s what sticks in his mind when you’re not around. That’s what makes him miss you and crave being close to you again.
On the other hand — if you use tactics like ignoring him or acting cold, he may just move on or lose interest altogether.
How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy (What Actually Worked for Me)
Here’s what helped me:
✅ Trigger his hero instinct — this is the most powerful way to create lasting emotional attraction.
✅ Stay confident and fulfilled in your own life — men are drawn to women who are happy and independent.
✅ Be warm, playful, and positive when you’re together — leave him with good emotional experiences that he wants more of.
✅ Create space — but naturally, not as a game. Giving him room to miss you works when it’s balanced with genuine connection.
✅ Admire him for who he is — men miss women who make them feel good about themselves.
If you want to learn exactly how to do this, here’s the guide that helped me so much:
Click here to check out His Secret Obsession.
Why This Works
Here’s what I finally understood:
✅ Men are wired to be emotionally drawn to admiration and appreciation.
✅ When a man feels seen and valued — not controlled or manipulated — he naturally thinks about you more when you’re apart.
✅ It’s not about “doing nothing” — it’s about being the kind of woman he connects with on a deeper level.
✅ And when you trigger his hero instinct, he misses you because being with you makes him feel like the best version of himself.
My Results (And What You Can Expect Too)
Once I stopped using “hard to get” tactics — and started focusing on building real emotional attraction — here’s what happened:
- He texted me more when we weren’t together.
- He started saying things like “I miss you” — without me prompting.
- He wanted to see me more often.
- He was more affectionate and emotionally open.
- And best of all — I wasn’t chasing, guessing, or playing games.
You Can Make Him Miss You (Without Games)
If you’re wondering how to make him miss you like crazy — trust me, you don’t need to play games. In fact, when you know how to create the right emotional connection, he’ll miss you because he wants to — not because you “forced” it.
If you want to know exactly how to do this — and how to inspire the kind of attraction that makes a man crave your presence — here’s the guide that helped me the most:
Click here now to check out His Secret Obsession.
One of the biggest mindset shifts for me was realizing that you don’t “make” someone miss you — you inspire them to. That’s a huge difference. When you focus on building emotional attraction and creating positive experiences with him, he’ll want to be around you more — and he’ll naturally miss you when you’re not there.
I also had to stop thinking that “disappearing” for a set number of days was the key. Trust me — I tried that! What really worked wasn’t the time apart — it was what I did when we were together. The more fun, warm, and admired he felt around me, the more he missed that energy when I wasn’t there.
Another important thing? Consistency matters. If you’re hot and cold, or if you play too many games, men start to feel emotionally unsafe — and that kills the desire to chase or miss you. Once I started being consistently warm, confident, and positive, I noticed him coming back stronger every time.
Triggering his hero instinct was an absolute game changer. When I learned how to make him feel admired and needed (in a natural way), he not only started missing me more — he became more protective, affectionate, and attentive. That’s why I always recommend His Secret Obsession:
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Another lesson? Your energy is everything. When I was feeling anxious or trying to “get” him to miss me, it never worked. But when I was genuinely happy, busy with my own life, and showing up with light, playful energy, that’s when he really started pursuing me again.
It also surprised me how powerful it was to leave interactions on a high note. Whether it was a date or a phone call, when I made sure we ended with a positive, warm moment, he’d almost always reach out again quickly. Men miss what makes them feel good — so creating those moments is key.
I also had to remind myself: men need space to feel longing. If you’re always available 24/7, it’s harder for him to miss you. But when you naturally have your own life — with hobbies, friends, and passions — he starts thinking: “What is she up to? I want to see her again.” That curiosity and desire build naturally when you create a little space.
Another thing I stopped doing? Trying to “remind” him of me through constant texts or social media. The more I let go of that — and trusted in the connection I’d built — the more often HE reached out first. Sometimes less really is more.
I also found that focusing on emotional connection over physical attraction made a bigger difference. Yes, looking good helps — but what really makes him miss you like crazy is how he feels emotionally connected to you. The deeper that bond, the stronger his longing.
If you’re sitting there wondering, “Will he really miss me again?” — the answer is YES, if you create the right emotional dynamic. For me, the best way to do that was using the techniques from His Secret Obsession:
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